tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-85496489102823240.post316445668961516891..comments2023-07-24T08:28:37.113-07:00Comments on WEATHERING THE STORM: Abuse Never Goes Away (Trigger Warning)photos by janhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04931922143998773384noreply@blogger.comBlogger17125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-85496489102823240.post-22708880073639399772011-12-09T19:34:36.767-08:002011-12-09T19:34:36.767-08:00I have first read your story from Bonnie's pag...I have first read your story from Bonnie's page. I cry out for you.<br /><br />I understand how people would tell you it's an excuse for your behavior or to cease telling the same things over and over as if repeating the abuse itself again and again over in your mind...<br /><br />I think only those who have experienced abuse could truly grasp what is it that you feel...<br /><br />and I do Jan...I do understand. The body has more story to tell...your history is deeply embedded there.<br /><br />I have no words to comfort you...just know that I am near spiritually...embracing your pain...Melissa Tandochttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13747825707650125721noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-85496489102823240.post-13920701340407212562011-11-22T00:19:20.950-08:002011-11-22T00:19:20.950-08:00Savira and Amy, thank you so much for your love an...Savira and Amy, thank you so much for your love and support. I am trying to march through a difficult time and every bit of support makes a difference.<3<3<3photos by janhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04931922143998773384noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-85496489102823240.post-76376450904378838332011-11-21T21:28:33.289-08:002011-11-21T21:28:33.289-08:00I cannot wrap my brain around it...
I am so very ...I cannot wrap my brain around it...<br /><br />I am so very sorry! You are 100% spot on right -- NO child should ever be subjected to such evil...ever! It further angers me when such evil is swept under the rug...someone that turns a blind eye is equally guilty! You are a brave and courageous woman for speaking out -- may you be blessed with peace and comfort. <br /><br />I am so very proud of you for standing up and using your voice!Amyhttp://mommetime.me/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-85496489102823240.post-22651555570241880112011-11-21T18:45:58.120-08:002011-11-21T18:45:58.120-08:00My only words for you are ....YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL......My only words for you are ....YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL.....<br />One needs to look inside of you to see the qualities you have...<br />Love and LightAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-85496489102823240.post-82955632804846877402011-11-21T17:29:31.409-08:002011-11-21T17:29:31.409-08:00To all of you loving and cherished people I say th...To all of you loving and cherished people I say thank you so very much! I have not much strength today, I am trying to climb out of a canyon at the moment. So I say thank you,Rimly, Suluka, Janu, Mani, Mystic190,Nelieta,Bongo,Anna,Portia, and SJ you are all very wonderfully supportive.photos by janhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04931922143998773384noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-85496489102823240.post-28927996249160847742011-11-21T13:52:11.281-08:002011-11-21T13:52:11.281-08:00It makes me cry when I read about how people, chil...It makes me cry when I read about how people, children have suffered at the hands of those that should love and protect them from anything. It must be so hard to write and share these intimate memories but also if it helps then I can understand that it is worth the pain. You are incredibly courageous oxoxoxPapercut Dollhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15464641582104501391noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-85496489102823240.post-10574509990711923942011-11-21T05:51:13.510-08:002011-11-21T05:51:13.510-08:00your account left me numb! But we girls are always...your account left me numb! But we girls are always abused in some or other form and we are conditioned to sweep such things under the carpet.Whenever I opened my mouth to tell about my hurts I was always immediately sermonized to forget it and move ahead. The response to my recent article 'The Struggle Within' on my blog was on similar predictable lines.Yes, you are right, that wound never heals.<br />-PORTIAPORTIAhttp://me-abookworm.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-85496489102823240.post-4523902321672679872011-11-21T02:31:58.232-08:002011-11-21T02:31:58.232-08:00That is so true ,no one should ever be subjected t...That is so true ,no one should ever be subjected to any kind of abuse be it physical or mental, especially children I cannot begin to understand what you must've gone through, I am so sorry that you had to go through this pain, and pray that your you will always have the strength to heal , and reach out , you are a wonderful human being,and a great asset to the world , God Bless you and always keep you safe XXXXXXX Anna RomanoAnna Romanohttp://methodmum.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-85496489102823240.post-33325107849447233022011-11-20T06:21:50.263-08:002011-11-20T06:21:50.263-08:00believe me when I say I know you're pain... to...believe me when I say I know you're pain... to me the body memories the smells the feelins etc are the worst... right now P uses distraction with me but it doesn't always work... I GAT IT, and just know i am here....XOXOXXO AS always....XOXOXOXOXOBongohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09476508632697640785noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-85496489102823240.post-57604810825964526142011-11-20T06:10:38.095-08:002011-11-20T06:10:38.095-08:00Jan, this touched me! No child should go through t...Jan, this touched me! No child should go through this. I cannot even begin to understand what sick person would do this to a child. I am so happy that you are reaching out to help other people. You are in my prayers and I pray that the horrible dreams will go away! xxxxxNelietahttp://nelietatravellingadventures.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-85496489102823240.post-55080853137021370312011-11-20T05:34:15.321-08:002011-11-20T05:34:15.321-08:00To have gone through all that pain and stop the cy...To have gone through all that pain and stop the cycle is truly a miracle! You are stronger than most people and it takes alot to share something so horrifying but it does begin the process of healing. You will be in prayers and I am hope one day soon it will not haunt you anymore!mystic190https://www.blogger.com/profile/18243052106304607717noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-85496489102823240.post-16220400808710817462011-11-20T05:15:29.355-08:002011-11-20T05:15:29.355-08:00O jan!! Forget all this..u have taken out a brave ...O jan!! Forget all this..u have taken out a brave topic v outrageously!!<br /><br />Just chuck it!! Its nice u write abt it,,u must have felt light!!<br /><br />God Bless U<br />Love<br />MAniManisha Bhatiahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09383434139941400003noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-85496489102823240.post-41407325751735846592011-11-20T04:24:28.954-08:002011-11-20T04:24:28.954-08:00You are strong. I cannot even phantom the pain, bo...You are strong. I cannot even phantom the pain, both mental and physical, that you have gone through.<br />Love, hugs and prayers to you.JANUhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06983287092498427967noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-85496489102823240.post-70574107288221161182011-11-20T04:03:09.478-08:002011-11-20T04:03:09.478-08:00Lots of positive healing, prayers and love to you....Lots of positive healing, prayers and love to you. You have spoken about it and come out stronger, be brave, god bless.sulekkhahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06022718430683943561noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-85496489102823240.post-683647224782485282011-11-20T03:15:29.121-08:002011-11-20T03:15:29.121-08:00You have gone through so much and I can understand...You have gone through so much and I can understand that being abused the scars always remain. Anything can trigger of those horrific memories. But you have come a long way fighting your way out of that hell and I admire and respect your courage and tenacity. God bless you Jan. Love youRimlyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04800381730067608251noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-85496489102823240.post-82805343221231783342011-11-19T23:44:54.288-08:002011-11-19T23:44:54.288-08:00Thank you Alpana, I appreciate your hugs and praye...Thank you Alpana, I appreciate your hugs and prayers so very much.I will be alright, I see light inthe midst of the dark. <3photos by janhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04931922143998773384noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-85496489102823240.post-28202536147536333092011-11-19T22:10:00.388-08:002011-11-19T22:10:00.388-08:00You are right Jan,no one deserves this kind of pai...You are right Jan,no one deserves this kind of pain..I am really sorry to read this,I wish the pain would go away,but I guess some scars are there to last you a life time..Sometimes things happen in our lives that tear us apart inside, but if we don't learn to look past them and see the sun shining above the clouds, we will forever be standing in the rain.I know its easy to say such things..but I really wish I could hug you right now,take care of yourself,and my wishes and prayers are always with you.Alpana Jaiswalhttp://www.motifsonthewall.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.com